Shyness is nothing but a socially acceptable and polite word for FEAR. In other words, “shy” people are scared shitless! Shy people are fearful of new experiences, of speaking up, of taking risks, and of new people. Timid, insecure and self-conscious, shy men are relegated to the fringe of dating society. Associating speaking up and [...]

You can teach a child about life, about death, about good or bad, but teaching a child about rejection is something that many parents don’t put on their little darling’s educational calendar! That’s too bad. Rejection is a part of life, and dealing with rejection successfully is a valuable skill set which could mean the [...]

Life has many facets that challenge our lives. Some of these challenges seem to be directed toward our very livelihood. They may be presented to us in our work, projects we undertake or situations we face on a daily basis. And yes, they can present an impact in matters of the heart. “Once burned” as [...]

Why is it that so many mothers are afraid of saying “no” to their children? Are parents today spineless weenies, raising a generation of selfish spoiled brats? Are you guilty of rewarding your children’s disrespectful treatment with an unending stream of material goods and unyielding devotion? Parenting: A Brat Today, A Social Nightmare Tomorrow? Every [...]

I want to share information that I believe will inspire you to want better for yourselves in relationships, and be better for yourselves from your relationships to your communities and to the world. At the very least it will cause you to think, which might be better than someone lambasting you constantly without offering any [...]

By taking the time to understand what women are looking for in a romantic partner, you can jump into the singles world confident and ready! Otherwise, you are bound to hear a lot of conversations that end with “You’re a nice guy, but” and “I think we should just be friends.” You have enough friends. [...]

Self-publishing is the hottest trend in books, as it provides creative thinkers turned authors with a fast and easy way to get their work on the market. With the added option of “print on demand”, and desktop publishing and design software, the initial cost to get your book out can be very minimal. Self-publishing is [...]

Over and over again stories pour into advice columns from brokenhearted people madly in love with partners that refuse to love them back. Why are some people afraid to let go and fall in love? Fear. Some of the reasons people have given for succumbing to fear of love are: o I’ve had a bad [...]

Say we have a couple that have been dating for a year or so. They are monogamous, he says he loves her, she loves him. He knows he doesn’t want to lose her. She cannot imagine her life without him in it. They have great sex, good times, long intimate conversations. So one day she [...]

A young woman wrote in to my dating advice column recently and asked me: “What qualities are absolutely essential in a partner or in an ideal relationship? I have a pretty huge list and want to share some of them with you o affectionate o unconditional love for each other o emotional support, connection and [...]